Pen Pals

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Wagwan besties,

Let's go straight to the point shall we?

In 2023,acquaintances,Friendships and even relationships have started taken roots online,I.e through the use of social media...It's a great thing to see really....
Social media has improved networking a lot thereby enabling people to reach out to people in countries they've never even been to....

At the same time,It is also rumored that social media friendships seem to be the sweetest until you meet the person in reality....Why?

Because,people will only show what they want you to see online and will only let you think of them how they want you to....but when you meet that "perfect" friend in reality,you start to notice their flaws,The way they relate with people,their attitude,e.t.c which completely contradicts the kind of image they've already created of themselves in your mind....ouch...

Maybe a penpal is just better off as one..Well....
Nobody is perfect.....That Online Friend of yours is NOT perfect..they only let you see their good side....periodttttt ..hehe

Now...building relationships online?
I know,I know that's what you want to read about....you want to know the writer's opinion??
I don't have a problem with that...it's a personal decision of yours...If you meet someone online and along the line you both get married?Good for you....Congratulations...
Now I want to hear your opinion....

What do you think about making friends online,building relationships online do you think it's safe?
Or Do you think it should only be limited to making business partners?
Would you have an Online friend ? IF YES,would you be eager to meet them in person or would you rather leave them as Pen Pals??
Please leave your opinions in the comment section. 

Do let me know what you think.
Thanks for reading 
Much love 💜🤍





Comments

  1. AnonymousOctober 19, 2023 at 9:11 AM

    Online friendships could be so frustrating at times cos even after meeting the person in real, you still regret meeting the person. All they show you is the good part of them.

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  2. EbubeOctober 19, 2023 at 9:15 AM

    Online stuffs re not my thing
    Whether business or relationship
    You better meet the person face to face

    ReplyDelete
  3. AnonymousOctober 19, 2023 at 9:16 AM

    Personally I prefer online/long distance relationship. Seeing you everyday/everytime is not healthy for me. I will get tired of such relationship

    ReplyDelete

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