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Toxic friendships I

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  Hallo Vrienden, Even been in a friendship without enjoying it?or felt belittled by a friend? Ever been In a Toxic friendship?...How did you leave? Here are my thoughts on Toxic friendships......this is a very extensive discussion so it might have a second part jsyk....Now you can read along πŸ˜‰  Major stages in Toxic friendships include: 1. THE COMPETITOR OPERATING MODE: Always. Needs. To Feel. Superior. SIGNATURE MOVES: Running against you for positions ; prying about your grades (then bragging about theirs); undermining your accomplishments. WHY IT’S TOXIC: A little friendly competition can spur you to do your best, but constantly worrying about being outdone by someone who’s supposed to have your back? Now that’s exhausting. “Friends should celebrate your successes as much as they support you through tough times,”  HOW TO DIAGNOSE IT: If you often ask yourself “When is it my turn?,” you may need to find a friend who is happier boosting you than bursting your bubble. 2...

The Gen-Z

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  Hey fam, Grab a seat let's discuss this Generation of ours.... Welcome to our generation where bad habits have been sugar-coated with sweet words and we just deceive ourselves even though we know we are doing the wrong thing.lol  Welcome to the Gen-Z where Indecent dressing is now called Body positivity lol but regardless after dressing Indecent you've still watered down your value baby. Welcome to the Gen-Z where Desperation is tagged determination lol.I hope you know it doesn't still change the fact that you're Desperate ‼️ Welcome to the Gen-Z where inappropriate attitude is being redressed as moodswings and is blamed on "Zodiac signs".....You have a bad character change it my love ‼️ As harsh as this sounds it's the truth....let's call a spade a spade and do the right thing please  Give yourself value and pride....It's pride nor Arrogance.......You have value and worth don't make yourself less πŸ’― ✨  I am sorry for the long break I took......