How to cope when you don't live alone.

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Hello fam 💖 

Been a while?Yes.

Without much further ado,Let's discuss the topic cohabitation and how to cope with living with people who are not family.

We all agree that at a point in life we get to meet new people,find ourselves in new places and it takes some time to adapt to both the environment and the people In the environment......

OK,So....

To live happily and problem-free with people,we must first consider the golden rule "Do unto others what you want others to do unto you"

In essence,You should give to people what you can't accept from people....Do not take what belongs to your neighbour without asking them,its very rude and inconsiderate 😒. 

Even after asking for permission,endeavour to return whatever you have borrowed in good shape....You won't accept if someone lends your stuff and brings it back in bad shape so HANDLE PEOPLE'S PROPERTY WITH CARE. And protect it like its yours.

While you'll agree with me that it takes discipline and self content to avoid borrowing or lending things from your neighbours,there's also a saying "There's love in sharing" but don't forget "There's peace in having yours".....In order to avoid being embarrassed,why not get your own and be contented with yours...leave what doesn't belong to you alone!!!!.....to avoid issues

Always endeavour to use the magic words "please,Sorry,Thank you" when it is necessary....It doesn't change anything about you...it only makes people respect you more.

Talk to people around you with respect and they will also reciprocate it....remember,"Respect Is Reciprocal"

Learn to respect people's boundaries.

Try to be understanding and not shove your neighbour's mistake in their face,if they wrong you,explain to them in what way they hurt or wrong you all for the sake of peace 

Lastly,

Be Kind and Let Love Lead.

When there is; Respect,Understanding,Contentment and Self Control,It makes it very difficult to have problems with people around and makes you live in a more conducive environment because when you are at peace with everyone,you'll be very Content and happy.

Now,would you rather live alone or have a roommate?

Let me know your opinions in the comment section. 

Thank you for taking your time to read through

Much Love 💜🤍



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